Today’s couple’s counseling felt more like a resistance meeting than it felt like we had any things that we needed to talk about. Our therapist knew I was an artist but Matt just jumped in with “Look. He’s an #LGBTQ+ #eroticartist of note. He’s been at it forever.” Therapist was like “Wow. This whole time you’ve been modest about what you do, like you’re on the down low.” 1/4